Make your DMsworth opening
Add a custom link to your Instagram bio. Messages must include virtual roses. These roses hold real value, as they can be redeemed for gift cards and more.
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A DM is free. A rose isn’t.
Your DMs
The inbox for people with real intentions. Current DMs get buried in spam and corny pickup lines.
Your roses
Your rosesA rose costs real money, so only people who are serious send one. Each comes with a note written for you — and the more roses, the more they mean it.
How it works
- Add link to your bioYou will get a custom link. Paste it into your Instagram bio and share it in a story.
- Roses arrive with a noteEach one comes with a message and their Instagram handle, so you can look them up first.
- Accept or skipAccept roses and match with the ones you want to talk to. Accept roses and skip the ones you don’t. They won’t be notified unless you match.
- Match and text privatelyWe give you both a free phone number to use. Neither of you will ever see the other’s number unless you give it to them.
Redeem roses for gift cards
Trade in your roses for gift cards at places you love.
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Good to know
Does it cost me anything?
No. Making your link and receiving roses is free. Only the person sending roses pays.
Isn’t this paying to talk to someone?
A rose isn’t payment for a reply, a photo or a date — you don’t owe anyone anything. It’s how someone shows they’re serious enough to spend something to reach you. You still decide who you talk to.
What happens when I skip?
You still keep the roses, and you don’t have to say a word. If someone makes you uncomfortable, report them and they can’t send you roses again.
Will they get my phone number?
Never. Every chat runs through a Blush number, and you can end it whenever you like.
What can I do with my roses?
Roses you accept go into your wallet. Trade them for gift cards, or send them on to someone you like.
Make your DMs worth opening
Here to send someone a rose? Open the Blush link in their Instagram bio.
18+ · US only